Hopefully I'm doing this right!
Well, here goes anyway. In my short experience with large families - my oldest is just 9, I have found that life runs a lot smoother if I will plan ahead. You probably already know this. However, use it as a reminder.
Here's my example. This past Friday, I had the kids assignments written out and gave them a timeline. 8:00 Math, 8:30 Spelling....You get the picture. Very little arguing, and it was all done in a timely manner.
Today, there was no timeline, no written schedule and complaints and weaping were the norm. Hmmm....guess what I need to do from now on.
Now, I know some of you don't like a schedule, but it works for me!
Also, if you have a baby that insists on being held, then get a Maya wrap. It is a wonderful thing, and they transfer very easily to a crib once they've been walked to sleep.